FAQs

What is a Death Doula or End of Life Doula?

A death doula, or an end-of-life doula, is a trained, non-medical professional who provides emotional, physical, and educational support to individuals nearing death and their loved ones, helping them navigate the dying process and find peace and meaning.

What is a Death Doula’s Responsibility?

  1. Emotional Support:

    Death doulas provide compassionate and non-judgmental support to the dying person and their family, helping them process their emotions, fears, and anxieties related to death and dying.

  2. Practical Assistance:

    They assist with logistical planning for the end-of-life journey, including coordinating care with other professionals, helping with advance directives, and making arrangements for the funeral or memorial. 

  3. Guidance and Education:

    Death doulas offer information and guidance about the dying process, helping families understand what to expect and how to support their loved ones best. 

  4. Spiritual Support:

    They can offer spiritual or existential support, helping the dying person and their family find meaning and peace during this difficult time. 

  5. Legacy Work:

    They may help the dying person create a legacy, such as a memory book or video, to share with their loved ones. 

  6. Advocacy:

    They can advocate for the dying person's wishes and preferences, ensuring their needs and values are respected. 

  7. Respite for Caregivers:

    Death doulas can provide respite for overwhelmed family members, allowing them to take a break and recharge. 

  8. They are not medical professionals and do not provide medical care. 

    When is the best time to reach out to a doula?

    As soon as you realize you may need one, whether it’s urgent or well in the future. Some retain a doula when they start their estate planning and end-of-life planning. Some find a doula when they are already sick